Surprised are you? About the title I mean. We’ve all been
caught up with dance crazes from long ago and many people frowned upon the
types of dances from back then the same way we do now. However much I love
dancing, this is really not about a new dance craze; it’s about the dance craze
that most people do until they come to the realization that this dance—is one
we should all sit out—becoming a wall-flower in the dance-hall of life.
James tells us to, “Submit
to God, resist the devil and he will flee from us,” (4:7). So, if that’s true,
why do so many people think that they can entertain the devil and escape the
consequences that are bound to result from being around him?
Perhaps, I’m being too subtle. We engage in a dance with the
devil when—we think we can “try” drugs and escape addiction. We think we can be
“sexually promiscuous” and escape the consequences of our actions—unwanted
pregnancy, sexually transmitted diseases, damaged self-esteem, and negative
labelling by others. We think we can “listen to peers” especially children and
disrespect parents and other adults without dealing with the consequences that
could end up in locked out of a home and locked into a system that does nothing
to promote well-being. We think we can “hang out” with the dope dealers and not
get burned when they do. We think we can “steal our way” out of poverty only to
discover that theft is not the way when we get caught and go to jail. We think
we can “outsmart” parents and the law until we see our faces plastered on
social networks or the news—on the most wanted criminal postings.
Anytime, we think we can do wrong and get away it—we’re
dancing with the devil leading us into darkness and possible death. We must
remember that the devil—that master of deception and father of liars—gets his
kicks from seeing us getting into hot water with no way out of it. He laughs at
the follies of his followers, cheering them on from the sidelines—showing them
how to get swallowed up into the pit in which they have fallen.
Think about the people who believe that gambling is a way
out of debt. The devil is leading this dance all the way to the poor house or
suicide. He encourages the loser to try, “just more time” and then sits
giggling hysterically when they lose even more. He loves to watch how they
scramble trying to manipulate others into letting them have more money to lose
and some resort to stealing because they believe—they need just more try.
Think about the people who live in abusive situations in
which the devil manipulates the abuser and the abused. He convinces the abuser
to keep abusing in order to control others, but then he also convinces the
abused to believe the abuser when they apologize, beg for forgiveness and then
they stay—for more abuse.
Think about those people—specifically parents—who allow
others to babysit for them and they abuse their children. Without a certain
knowledge of those who have been trusted, we open the door for the dance and
then when he leads, we get frustrated and angry. When we should have been looking
into the backgrounds of those we choose to trust, we don’t. When we should
trust our children to tell us the truth we don’t and allow the abuse to
continue when we keep getting the same people to babysit.
Stay tuned for Part 2--coming tomorrow and while you wait--toss that dance card aside, never to be used again.
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