"Avoid godless chatter, because those who indulge in it will become more and more ungodly" (2 Timothy 2:16 NIV).
When
I hear someone or see someone use scripture out of context, I am so
tempted to jump right in and correct them. The same is true when people
attempt to attribute certain things to God or to belittle what God has
said. I have come to the conclusion that when people want to be
ignorant, there is nothing anyone else can do. So, instead
of engaging in unproductive conversation, I pray for them and when
opportunity presents itself, I let them know I'm praying for them.
If we engage in stupidity, we tend to become like those who initiated it
and the more we talk, the leverage we give them because they know we
are easily swayed. Our role, when we hear or see foolishness, is to walk
away and pray. As hard as that sounds, we must make it happen. We do not wish to give the foolish, fuel to use to ignite godless chatter because that is what it will be if we engage.
A fool is known by their inability to stop talking about foolishness. Are we fools--other than for Christ? I'm not. If we simply limit our Godly conversation about His love, mercy, and grace--we have opened the door--hopefully
for another opportunity to get more involved in a conversation that
will yield or produce interest in someone hearing more. If we simply
attempt to beat people over the head with enumerating their sins, we
open the door for them to attack--with godless chatter--in defense of
their behavior and we lose ground if we engage. If we really want people
to receive the Good News, we need to use a balanced approach--share His love and then tell them how to be a recipient of all He has for them.
First
conversation with limited time: "Hello. How are you today? May I have a
few moments of your time? I'd like to share the love of God with you.
God loves you and wants only the best for you."
First
conversation with more time: "Do you know the Lord as Savior? Would you
like to know more? He loves you enough that He died for you and wants
to make sure you have opportunity to enjoy the abundant life He has in
store for you."
Of course, these conversations will vary, but hopefully, they are enough to open the door for anyone to share the Good News. We must all remember that, "one who wins souls, must be wise." Exercise wisdom in all things and don't become an antagonist trying to win someone to Christ. When we become the antagonist, we give Satan opportunity to win, not us.
If people do not want to hear what we have to say,
thank them for their time and move on. If they engage in ungodly
conversation, let them quibble; walk away and move on. If they choose to
listen, then captivate your audience with God's love and plant a seed
or water one and see God's Kingdom grow.
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